Wow, that was quick. Yeah I would say if you or anyone else runs into a refi situation in the future: it's definitely worth having the conversation and doing the math. If your interest rate is higher and you refi, you might pay a lot more monthly. But you also get a big lump sum upfront which'll relief stress. I think it depends on the individual whether or not you should refi.
As an example, if your refi means you pay some 3% more each year (say from $10K to $10.3K), but you can take the large lump sum and make at least 5% of your loaned amount each year (i.e. you take a lump sum of $25K and you're sure that you'll yield at least 500 bucks out of it), then you effectively have 2% in your spread.
Conversely, if your refi says you have to pay 10% more each year ($11K) but your lump sum can only generate you an additional $500, then you might lose a little money each year.
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